Should I be wary if my boyfriend talks to a girl(who hooks up with all his friends), then trys hides it?

He texts her quite frequently. Just the other night he told me he was going to hang out with the guys, then he got a text from her asking him if we was gonna go hang out with her afterall that night. I had no idea that he had her number until he went over his text messages(he never texts me), so I checked the bill and he texts her SOOO much. I don't think that they have done anything YET, but I am not sure if I should even stick around to find out. This girl has hooked up with at least 2 of his friends already. When I am around her, she is flirty with him, and asks mean to me. I am so lost on what to do. He is the type of guy who has a lot of girl friends, and I don't want to tell him he can't talk to all girls, but this is not the first girl that he has hid from me. I tell him to communicate with me about it and I won't be so upset, but for some reason he feels he must hide it from me. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Am I wrong for feeling that there is something going on here? I need help!

Should I be wary if my boyfriend talks to a girl(who hooks up with all his friends), then trys hides it?
Well...you should be worried! Anytime someone feels the need to hide something from someone else, well there is a problem.


If he texts her frequently and stuff like that then there might be some sort of admiration he doesn't want you to know about. But the most disturbing thing you pointed out was the fact that this isn't the frist time! You know the saying, 1st time shame on him, 2nd time shame on you. Don't play your own fool.


But before you jump the gun, talk to him. Who is this girl to him? How long have they known each other? Were you there before her or not? Those are things to consider. They could have a genuine friendship, but if you don't inquire info then you'll never know.


I know it's hard, I've been on both ends of this situation. If you want to go more in depth then e-mail me!
Reply:i wouldnt stick around to find out... i'd get out while i still could. if you've talked to him about it and its still an issue, then he has no respect for you.
Reply:he probably hiding it cause he thinks u will get upest. u have to be honest with him about ur feelings. and based on his reaction maybe u guys arent right for eachother. lying is bad no matter how big or small. depends on how long hes known this girl maybe shes just a skanky friend of the boys. boys are usually sluty so they will do anything they can get. even skanky broads that want them. they have a hard time saying no to sex if the girl is after them they think its justified if they are pursued because they didnt do anything



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