I found my husband hooks on porn site & I even saw a naked women picture & his masterpation on my PC. I was?

socked. He told me he looked at gay too. He admitted that he likes to look but never met w/ anyone. It's cheating on his marriage too. I myself a counelor, I know the suggestion. He doesn't want any counseling. He works early in AM -5AM, then he will wake up at 1:30am and gets on computer until time to work. When he's home, of course, he's tired. He will nap and no energy in the daytime. That's our lives for a few months. He still takes good care of the kids but it's heart breaking to me. I don't want my kids grow up in a single parent family, what should I do? HELP!!!!!!

I found my husband hooks on porn site %26amp; I even saw a naked women picture %26amp; his masterpation on my PC. I was?
I believe that it's one thing to look at porn on the internet. I'm married and I do. I don't see my wife a lot because I work early morning hours as well. But I don't do things like, get up extra early to look at it. Truth is, most people that masturbated regularly before marriage will continue to do so even if the sex is good. It looks like to me though he prefers the porn over you. I don't even want to start on the gay stuff. That's not even right. The kids are what's really suffering because when they get old enough to use the computer they'll find it. I don't have any kids right now but when I do all my stuff will be gone and never heard from again. Mainly because I don't want my kids finding that stuff the way I did. (In my parent's bedroom.) Porn is also an addiction and is harder to quit that than smoking.


Another thing is, if he's not willing to try to work this out with you then it seems like he needs to move on and do other things. Other things that may not be healthy for the kids to know about either. I know that a single parent family is not the best enviroment either but mommy and daddy are who the kids look to and structure their lives around into adulthood. I'm sorry to be so grim on this subject but it seems like he needs some help but just will not admit he has a problem.
Reply:It doesn't matter to me.I look at naked pictures of men too.U know what?he's very jelaous and he got mad at me..haha..I look at some hot men and he seems jealous.Sometime he stop watching women if i start watching men.. Report It

Reply:Men like to look at Nasty Skank Worthless women..I don't know why.Even my husband look at itt.I don't have any sympathy for a men like that.It's is NOT normal.Men look at porn is Abnormal. Report It

Reply:Do my advice.Watch naked pictures of men too.There's so many in the computer.Show him of what you're doing.They think they are the only who one who can do whatever the **** they want..We can do to as a wife.It must be fair...Let see who will get jealous. Report It

Reply:He told you he likes to look at nudity but has never met with anyone. What is so heartbreaking? I really don't get your question. Everyone likes to look at nude bodies. If a guy said "hey, wanna see me naked?" I'd take him up on it. lol. As long as he's not touching don't worry about it. Maybe I am missing something here. Your English sucks though so maybe I'm not understanding you.
Reply:relex don't worry...
Reply:Decide whether you are willing to live in a celibate marriage with this man or not. It's not an easy decision, but he has left you no choice. He will not stay physically loyal to you most likely. You have to decide whether this is what you want on behalf of your children or not.
Reply:First off, relax. Stop treating it like it's cheating. He's just a guy. Guy's will master bate in the bathroom with imaginary visions of the girl at the gym if they didn't have the computer! The problem is that he's addicted. Treat the addiction, not the cheating. You need to also think about how YOU are contributing to this too. How's the sex? Are you a dead fish? Is he needing to be seduced?





Just a thought.
Reply:HAVE YOU BEEN ENABLING THIS BY WITHDRAWING YOURSELF FROM HIM INTIMATELY??





have you found yourself..too tired? not interested? etc..making excuses to not be intimate??





there may also be bipolar -manic depression on his side...i know people who acted this way as well..this typically fit the bill..
Reply:Well, I think you should get rid of it all, and if he is angry, take the kids somewhere safe, away from him!
Reply:get rid of the computer!
Reply:try sex games and sexy bed clothes put on a personal show for your husband play different games with him and candelight dinners keep the fire burning
Reply:The man has problems if he could do that to his wife, because he is cheating right in your home. First I would remove that computer from my house and then I would remove him from my life.





You have to separate. That will show him how strong you feel about that never ever happening in your home again, especially because children live there. Teach him a lesson he will never forget. You will then see if he regrets what he did and see if he even loves you. You will see what he will do to change it. You have to know why the hell he would disrespect you, the marriage and his family like that.





Do not ignore it, because it will only get worse. Good Luck
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